Chitter Chatter

Ever had an extremely awkward silence? Well sometimes it happens with your significant other and you don’t know what to say to fill the void.

So to try and help this you out in this area I’ve found some conversation starters that should help move things along!

First I’ll mention some topics that couples typically discuss:

  • Old memories: Reminisce about great dates, the first date, fun things you’ve done together, or any other time you really enjoyed each others company.
  • The Future: If you’re really serious you could go the family and kids route, if you’re more serious you could talk about living arrangements and careers. Regardless the future is a fun topic to fantasize about together.
  • Your love: Talking about the things you love in your relationship, things you wish you had (don’t go too crazy or you might not have a relationship by the end of this conversation), what you would like to improve on our change, etc. Basically girls think about the movie The Notebook and you’ll be all set.
  • Silly Stuff: Any funny memories you have of each other, funny fights, etc. Anything that will bring some humor to your conversations.
  • Adventures: Talk about adventure’s you’ve had, one you’d like to repeat (possibly with your significant other), or new one’s you’d like to experience together.
  • Secrets: This is the one person you should want to tell your deepest darkest desires and secrets to, so go for it!
  • Your Childhood: Talk about your favorite memories from your younger years and compare stories.

Now for the list of questions…

  1.  My funniest memory of our dating days is when…
  2. Our kids would freak out if they knew we…
  3. Before we are together in heaven, I pray that here on earth we…
  4. I have this memory of you in a certain outfit, remember…
  5. The most scared you have ever been was…
  6. The happiest you have ever been was…
  7. I remember thinking I was courageous when I was young because I…
  8. I used to always wish I could…
  9. If I could spend a day just talking to any one person, it would be…
  10. I wish I had learned to …
  11. I picture us old, sitting in a rocking chair and you looking over at me and saying, darn it we never…
  12. If I could spend 24 hours doing anything in the world with you, it would be…
  13. I like it best when you refer to me as…
  14. The song that always makes me think of you is…
  15. My sweetest memory of us in our youth is when we…
  16. My favorite memory of our wedding day is…
  17. My greatest need right now as a woman is to…
  18. My greatest need right now as a man is to…
  19. If I could have any superhero power, it would be to…
  20. If I could eat anything and it not effect my health, I would have a feast on…
  21. If I could have lived in a different decade, it would be…
  22. I laugh every time I think of you doing…
  23. I would so enjoy reading out loud together… (My answer would be Fifty Shades of Grey haha!)
  24. If we could be roadies for any musical talent, I would choose…
  25. If I had it to do over, I would propose to you by…
  26. The world’s best anniversary trip would be to go to…
  27. My favorite photo of us is the one where…
  28. Do you know it scares me so much to…
  29. When I remember back to when we fell in love my favorite thing about you back then was…
  30. I feel you love me the most when you…

This list came from this site.

Another blogger’s great list of conversation ideas for couples! Click here

Overall it’s important to remember how important it is to communicate with your significant other. They’ll never know what you want or how you’re feeling if you never tell them!

As a last note, remember every time you see each other you don’t always have to fill every silent moment with conversation. There are times when it’s just as nice to enjoy the quiet with one another. We usually have silent moments in the car on the way home but if I feel like we need to fill that silence I pop in my iPod and play a song we both know so we can sing along together and laugh at one another. The main point is to always have fun and enjoy your time together. 

 

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